It was very interesting to read Ms. Post’s thoughts on the subject for which her family is famous.  Ms. Post is the spokeswoman for the Emily Post Institute.  She spoke about the need for etiquette in today’s society.  I liked her explanation of why it is important to know and practice etiquette.  I am going to paraphrase what she said when asked that question.  She said that etiquette sets the rules by which we act and helps us to know what behavior to expect from others.  Ms. Post talks about being in a business meeting and not having distractions.  You don’t want to be in a meeting and be worrying about your etiquette skills.  Your etiquette skills “smooth the way for you to focus on business relationships”.

Etiquette and Technology

Ms. Post said that one area that needs improvement in etiquette is technology.  I totally agree with her.  Think of the times you have experienced someone’s lack of courtesy when using a cell phone, a computer, or a blackberry in public or in a private meeting.  Think of the times you have received an inappropriate e-mail.  Think of the times when your business e-mails are ignored.

Business And Dining Etiquette

Two other areas Ms. Post talked about were business etiquette and dining etiquette.  One thing that I totally agree with her is being as prepared as you can be in your business dealings.  There are simple things as being on time which she mentioned.  Have you had to wait a long time for a business appointment after arriving?  How does that make you feel?  Does it make you feel as if your time isn’t valued by the person with whom you have the appointment?   What kind of impression does that type of behavior make on you?

I am interested if any of you read this article and what your thoughts are.  Have you experienced any of the things mentioned above?  Have you thought about your etiquette skills in these  different areas?  Are they up to par?

Questions or comments are always appreciated.

Ginny Brown
The Etiquette School of Northeast Georgia
Hoschton, Georgia (Hamilton Mill area, Dacula, GA)
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